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No I won't be leaving my hubby!!!!
by littlemissaverage @ 2007-06-19 - 10:52:56

I really should be posting this in my other blog, but as you know I'm banned from writing that one 88| 88| So some of you know what I'm talking about. Some of you will just think I'm mad (nothing new there though)

I've been married for 18 years on the 1st of July. I met my husband when I was 12 years old. We have been together since 1986 (when I was 15). I've been married for 18 years. We have two wonderful children and he is the love of my life.

So it really really pisses me off when people ask (not me directly, but friends of friends that hear about me) "Is she still with her husband then?", or "Is she going to go out and find someone else?". Now I know I've gone through a bit of a major change, but it hasn't changed my head or my heart. I'm still exactly the same person as I was (I just look a bit different ;D )

My husband is as perfect as a husband can be. He loves me more than anything and would do anything for me. I'm spoilt rotten :oops: He works hard. My family love him. He's an excellent Dad.

So why do people think I'm so shallow that after all these years I would suddenly want to find someone else. Obviously they think that I stayed with him because no-one else would look at me !!!!

Not only that, but it is actually starting to get to my hubby as well. He knows I would never leave him, but it's not nice to hear people keep saying it!!

I'm really trying to think of a good answer to people that say that (other than something with a swear word in it of course!!!)

OK rant over.

p.s it might sound like I've had a sex change, but I haven't :)) :))
If anyone is confused and you're on this friends list I'm happy to point you in the direction of my "other" blog. (as long as you keep my secret of course!!). Even though being as thick as I am I managed to post of photo of me yesterday and not make it a "friends post"!!!

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AbileneAbilene pro
2007-06-19 @ 11:18

* sniff *

I don't know where the 'other' place is.

* sniff *

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AbileneAbilene pro
2007-06-19 @ 11:19

* light bulb *

Doh.

Ignore me. lol.

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littlemissaveragelittlemissaverage [Member]
2007-06-19 @ 11:22

:)) Oh Abi you might just be as daft as me !!!

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deleted user [Visitor]

2007-06-19 @ 11:32

Ooo, Lil, I'm pissed off on your behalf! It's suggesting that he's somehow not good enough for you anymore.

Grrrr!

At least you're both secure enough to let it wash over you! :)

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littlemissaveragelittlemissaverage [Member]
2007-06-19 @ 11:37

Thank you for being pissed off on my behalf :) - I do appreciate it.

I know - it's terrible isn't it , my poor hubby :(

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HenriettahenpotHenriettahenpot [Member]
2007-06-19 @ 12:12

How rude is this. They should mind their own damn business. You should be commended for being together that long, not scoffed at. How shallow are the people that ask such stupid questions?

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littlemissaveragelittlemissaverage [Member]
2007-06-19 @ 12:46

I know - I still can't believe people have the nerve to say it!!

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dafterdafter [Member]
2007-06-20 @ 08:36

It's incredible - they're obviously jealous - that's all I can say :yes:

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